When does the game playing end? When do we take a minute to look over our life and say ‘I can’t keep doing this’. Do we have to wait until we are 45 plus years to discover that I might have let a ‘good thing’ go because it was easier to keep Ms. Right Now than Ms. Right One.
It boggles my mind sometimes because things can be going so well and both parties may do something to throw a wrench in it or sabotage the entire relationship all in the name of fear. So they comfort themselves with a warm body they’ll slowly move away from come morning. Because they know. They know that playing games will never give them what they really want. And most are afraid to see what they are worthy of because it is so much greater than what they could imagine for themselves.
I am constantly amazed and have fallen prey to the idea that ‘love hurts so stay away from it’. Not understanding how purifying to the soul it is. And just how wonderful it can be when we make the choice to give it to someone who deserves it.